Waiting For Him To Call - Survival Tips!

By: Tanya Haden Tebb
Submitted: 2008-11-12 15:57:08
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If you are reading this you’re probably trying to bide time till he finally calls and you don’t know if he will call or not, but you’ve got that tight feeling in your chest that comes from waiting for him to call.  Not quite in the chest, a bit lower, just below the rib cage, in the center, twisting, squeezing, it’s hard to breathe! 

If he doesn’t call, fine you’ll get over it and move on. BUT if he does call now you may have already lost the game because like it or not you’ve entered the realm of ‘neediness’ and needy is a bad start to any relationship. You want to be the one rolling the dice or you’re going to be at his mercy!

What To Do?

Well, the best advice would be: if and when he does finally call, be glad that he did and don’t answer. If you feel like this so early in the game it is almost guaranteed to end in tears! There is a synchronization to relationships and that feeling you have means there is NO synchronization: ‘let it go!’

Let’s Be Real!

You would probably like to blow him off, but you’re jumping every time the phone rings so when he finally calls you won’t be able to help yourself, you’re going to grab that phone and sound as sweet and inviting as you possibly can. Don’t beat yourself up about it, 90% of women would do the same thing. Relax, enjoy getting the phone call and do some damage control instead:

1. You can’t seem too eager, so be very casual and try to arrange it so that it is you who is calling him next time. If you talk about meeting up tell him you’ve got quite a busy schedule, plenty of engagements and you you’ll call him to confirm the arrangements. Now he is waiting for you to call, wondering whether you’ll be available or not. If you say you’ll call Friday, call late Friday or even Saturday. You want to make yourself a little mysterious, a little unavailable. You want him to be wondering whether you’re interested, whether you will call, not the other way round.

2. When you meet up, be aloof, yet seductive, sexy yet elegant. Make him want you, but don’t let him know that is what is on your mind. Tease him like crazy, but definitely DO NOT go home with him OR have sex!

3. Continue making connections with other men. Don’t consider yourself off the market in any way. In fact contact all your friends. The more texts, emails and phone calls you are receiving at a time like this will take your mind off a) when is he going to call or, b) how soon before you call him back.

You are a Goddess and you can have most any guy you wish if you play it the right way, but keep in mind that when it comes to your true love there won’t be any games. You will both feel that synchronization immediately!

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