Show Some Guts When You Are In Love

By: Nisha Sharma
Submitted: 2007-01-17 16:23:58
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No point wondering. You never know what you might miss out on otherwise

Speak your mind – its one of the first lesson I learned in love. I met a boy out there in college fresher night because of some traditional mixed up. We met first time and it was love at first sight. We become friends, we liked the same kind of music, had identical devil-may-care attitude.

As all women know, biggest turn-on is big time bonding, great sex, money, sports car etc…….but all fade when you meet Mr. Right. Right? So here I was madly in love still pretending to be coolest friend.

But lightening came striking when I entered into Medical school and moved out of town for further study. I was shattered, as he was a horrible letter writer and then he met someone else. Hurriedly, I state what I feel for him and was ecstatic when came to know the he also had the same feeling. But life had moved on for him and he was in relationship with someone else. It was one of biggest sinking feeling I had for my whole life. Only I told him earlier, it would have different heading for my love-life. At least, it would saved me wondering & waiting for years.

What’s the worst that can happen if you share your feeling? You might freak out the man in question, find out if he think you’re a sister or go through an uncomfortable phase. He is hardly like to end the relationship and certainly appreciate the honestly.

The flip side is that you could get lucky because someone else didn’t have the guts to voice their feelings. What’s with us a woman? The guy I finally married had an on-off relationship with another women. He had no idea how he feel about him and was fed up of dealing with her mind games. By the times she figured she really liked him, it was too late. I was already on the scene.

Bottomline is Be brave. Talk to him when you’re going through it. Not years later, on a nostalgia trip. There are too few good men out there, so if you met one, don’t feel shy to let him know.

Making the first move will show up your confidence in yourself. That you are comfortable with what you are. Be a lady.

Nisha Sharma is Staff writer at Womenbrands.com. She specializes in Women Psychology and issues. You can reach her at http://www.womenbrands.com.

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