10 Secrets to Meeting Mr Perfect At a Bar

By: Andrew Bermam
Submitted: 2007-01-17 16:24:27
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Life in the fast lane means there are hardly any opportunities to meet Mr. Right or your dream date. The dating scenario has rapidly progressed to include online dating, speed dating, dating events, and of course the old faithful an evening at the local watering hole or bar.

Many singles frequent bars on Friday night or Saturday hoping to meet Mr. or Miss Perfect. Women go to bars not just to hang out with friends or have a blast but to try and meet men. Don’t be afraid most bars are not dangerous places. If you are ready to meet Mr. Perfect then you must know the secrets to success:

1. Dress stylishly but not sexily. Men often read wrong signals if a woman is too alluring and get ready for a one-night stand. You don’t want to give out wrong signals so just be yourself, stylish, charming, and self assured.

2. Try not to drink too much. Excess alcohol will cloud your senses and you may take a wrong step. Order a virgin cocktail and sip it slowly. Learn about what not to do at a bar. Never accept a drink from a stranger, try not to reveal personal information like an address or phone number as soon as you meet anyone, learn how to determine whether a man is genuine or not.

3. Don’t hide in dark corners of the bar, find a table that as good lighting and is within viewing distance of the other tables and the bar. Go with friends and enjoy the evening, don’t let the prospect that you are on the look out spoil the day. If you notice an interesting stranger, look into his eyes and smile. Let him know you are interested. You could be bold and invite him to join your group.

4. Being shy will never get you anywhere. Try and set aside your fears and respond to gestures of friendship or interest naturally.

5. Before you leave home mentally prepare a few conversation openers that you are comfortable with. Many dating books as well as websites advice on “conversations” read through what they have to say and use what you are comfortable with. If books or movies are what you like keep focused on these topics to not venture into unknown topics like sports.

6. Try and be yourself. Creating an image of oomph will get you no where. If you meet a man who is attracted to you the everyday person then the relationship is likely to progress. Sadly facades are hard to maintain.

7. Learn how to flirt and to send deep messages with a single glance. If you surf the web there are zillion articles that reveal the use of body language and eye contact. In fact studies show that a great percentage of communication in the world is non verbal.

8. Don’t be nervy or it will show. Before you leave home practice a little meditation or deep breathing. Keep your mind off the prospect that you are searching for Mr. Perfect. If you are nervous then it will cloud your sense of reasoning and personality. Decide I am going to have a good time, meeting Mr. Perfect is secondary.

9. Never come on too strongly. When you meet a man use the time to find out as much as you can about him. Known whether he meets your ideals. Check out if there is any chemistry at all. Never interrogate a man as soon as you meet him, he will just shy away.

10. Prepare for a date like you would for an interview. Groom yourself well, wear clothes that showcase you perfectly, never go heavy on make up or perfume. Be stylish and subtle, have a touch of class.

Walk into the bar with your head held high and back straight. If you are well dressed many eyes will focus on you, try and be unaware, hide your discomoft, and walk confidently to the bar or table. If you see people you know give a smile or friendly wave. Stop briefly at a table where friends are seated and talk to them. Let your natural personality shine through and you are sure to meet Mr. Perfect.

Andrew Bermam is a freelance writer for http://www.1888Restaurants.com , the premier website to find help on restaurants for romance, power lunches, entertainment, buffets, Sunday brunches, descriptions, photos, menus & more. He also freelances for the premier Online Colleges Site http://www.1888OnlineColleges.com

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