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The PSF's That Lead To High-Frequency Sex...
A woman who is sexually attracted to a man has one set of PSF’s.
A woman who is turned-off by a man has a very different set of PSF’s.
What are PSF’s?
PSF is an acronym for Pictures, Sounds, and Feelings.
Now, let’s start with pictures…
If you are a man, you know that a sexually attractive woman is one who is visually pleasing to your eyes. Let’s check the validity of this statement…
Pretend for a moment that a haggard, toothless, unkempt, and smelly old woman approaches you and begins saying things that clearly are meant to stroke your ego.
Then, after only a few minutes, she starts saying sexy things to you.
Would you feel sexual attraction towards her?
If you are anything like the average male, the emphatic answer is “definitely not!”
There’s no sexual attraction because visually, the woman is “unattractive”.
But, just because that’s the way it is for a man doesn’t mean that’s how it is for a woman.
You see, for a woman, an attractive man is one who mentally pleases her – one who stimulates her mind in a certain way.
Now, I’m not suggesting that women are searching for toothless, smelly old men but I am affirming that in comparison to men, a woman’s attraction towards a man has less to do with his looks or his body and a more to do with the “pleasure” that the man invokes in her mind.
Let’s use an analogy that will make sense to a man.
Imagine that you are looking to buy a “widget”. Unless you have information that allows you to differentiate the various widgets in the marketplace, you’re only differentiator is price – and so you start shopping based on price.
Well, in the same way, if a man doesn’t provide – read SUPPLY – a woman with pleasurable and exciting mental pictures, then that woman can only “shop” that man based on external factors – what she sees in him and what she hears from him – and then she will create her own picture of that man.
For example, on a least desirable to most desirable scale, she might picture him as:
- Boring
- Sexually needy
- A “Sugar-Daddy”
- Attractive and sexy
- Fun and exciting
- Powerful and influential
As you can easily intuit, a woman feels zero attraction for a man who is boring or sexually needy. In fact, not only does she feel zero attraction for him but she is actually repulsed by such a man.
Why?
It’s because a boring or sexually needy man is a “drain” to a woman – and a man who is a drain DOES NOT create exciting pictures, sounds, or feelings in a woman’s mind.
Allow me to especially emphasize this to married men.
Please understand that if your wife views you as boring and sexually needy, you have a double-kiss-of-death on your marriage. You can bet your last dollar that your wife is either on her way to a divorce court or she is on her way to an affair with some other man – a man who isn’t boring and sexually draining.
Sadly, many men are “surprised” that the man their wife has had an affair with is a total jerk, a mooch, a loser, etc. and they can’t understand why of all men, their wife would go to this kind of guy.
Well, now you know the reason – her lover may have had a lot of negative traits but he absolutely was not a sexually needy BORE!
For clarity’s sake, what is a bore?
The two biggest characteristics of a bore are as follows:
- A man who thinks, talks, and cares only about his business or his hobby – even when his stated goal is to create more money for his wife.
- A man who FORSAKES his wife day in and day out as he seeks FUTURE gain.
Do you get it?
Now, let’s hit on sounds…
Far too many men complain and whine their women into virtual insanity.
Far too many men continue to focus on the negatives of life day in and day out, such that their words and even their voice translates into a nasal, abrasive, and grating sound that drives their woman crazy.
Probably, there has been a time where you heard a woman mimicking and mocking a man.
What kind of voice did she use?
That’s right, a whining, nasally, and irritating voice. Of course, the man didn't really sound like that. Rather, she was articulating exactly what she was hearing in her head.
A woman that has these kinds of sounds running through her head will not feel sexual attraction towards the man who is creating these sounds for her.
It’s as simple as that.
But, what if every time a woman heard her man’s voice it took her mind back to times such as when they were on a white, sandy beach where his confident and loving voice soothingly blended with the crashing of the waves?
Can you sense how these kinds of sounds in her head can and do lead to sexual attraction?
Finally, let’s touch on feelings…
Men know that women are especially in tune with their feelings and yet so many men will consistently talk, act, and behave in a way that causes a woman to tune into feelings of:
- Nervousness
- Poverty
- Insecurity
- Inadequacy
- Insufficiency
Think about it. How many people do you know – male or female – who want these kinds of feelings?
Hint: These are not the feelings that any woman wants to feel.
Rest assured that if a man is generating these feelings inside of a woman, she will sooner or later seek to separate herself from the man who invokes these feelings within her.
In conclusion, the man who can invoke the right kind of pictures, sounds, and feelings within a woman is sure to enjoy a long-lasting, happy, and exciting relationship with her.
While it’s true that there’s not a lot a man can do with how he’s physically built, it’s also true that there is a lot that he can do in terms of the pictures, sounds, and feelings that he invokes in his lady.
And that, my friend, is good news for men everywhere.
Copyright 2007, Article by Calle Zorro of NymphomaniacWife.com
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