Top Ten Ways To Have An Affair And Not Get Caught...

By: Danielle Hollister
Submitted: 2007-01-17 16:25:07
Print this article | Tell a friend | For publisher | Social Bookmarking
Rating:
 

Most everyone believes when they get married that it will be forever. However, the reality in today's world is that many marriages fail and result in divorce. Other married couples may fall out of love and grow to dislike one another more than they care to admit. But for a variety of reasons (kids, money, religious beliefs etc...), they remain husband and wife in theory primarily.

These types of marriages can inevitably lead one or both spouses to seek the comfort of another adult and eventually cheat on one another. Another scenario that may lead a married person to be unfaithful is an unexpected meeting with someone who sweeps them off their feet.

Despite their attempts to prevent this relationship from becoming an extramarital affair, they may find their feelings to powerful to deny and thus give into their desires to be with this new person. The saying "Life is too short..." comes to mind as justification for this new love or lust.

Yet other married people may consciously choose to cheat on their spouses. If you fall into that category, you probably have the art of not getting caught mastered already.

Regardless of what leads a spouse to break their wedding vows, here some of the best ways to get away with an affair.

  1. Never bring your lover to your home.

  2. Never go to your lover's home (unless they are completely single and free from the ties of marriage and/or a serious relationship.) If they get caught by their significant other, chances are your spouse will also find out.

  3. Never call your new companion from your home phone and/or your cell phone (if your spouse has access to your phone record.)

  4. Never give your new friend your home phone number.

  5. Keep a low profile when you are out with your lover. You would be surprised how many people know you and/or your spouse, who unbeknownst to you may see you lavishing inappropriate attention on your new companion in public.

  6. Do your best to meet with your lover out of town - somewhere far enough away from home that you do not know people and people do not know you.

  7. Try to set up a regular schedule of "dates" with your lover. If your spouse expects you to be out of town for business overnight every Wednesday, he/she will not suspect anything when you maintain this schedule and include your new friend in your overnight stays.

  8. Do not become too confident in your ability to deceive your spouse. If you become too sure of yourself, you will get sloppy and you may get caught.

  9. Do not tell everyone you know about your illicit trysts. You should trust very few, if any, friends with your secret.

  10. Do not make promises you cannot keep. Nothing will prompt your lover to reveal your affair to your spouse quicker than your failure to fulfill some insincere commitment to end your marriage for him or her.

Resource Box - © Danielle Hollister (2004) is the Publisher of BellaOnline Quotations Zine - A free newsletter for quote lovers featuring more than 10,000 quotations in dozens of categories like - love, friendship, children, inspiration, success, wisdom, family, life, and many more. Read it online at - http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art8364.asp

Article source: Expert Articles

Most Recent Articles in Culture & Society category

  • American Health Care Academy Gives Back to the Community - By: Cardo Jones
    With the holidays creeping up on us we have to keep in mind the people that are less fortunate than ourselves and to make sure that during these times that we give back to our community. The American Health Care Academy which offers online CPR certification at www.cpraedcourse.com did just that. They contact their local North Texas Food Bank and volunteered their time to put together boxes of canned goods to be distributed to families in need of food. This way these families may have a better holiday.
  • What Can Forensic Video Analysis Do For You In The Court Room? - By: Fredrik Lönn
    When it comes to being effective in the court room, forensic video analysis can be the answer. If you know how to accurately analyze video and create a timeline of still pictures, you can better understand how to approach the court. So where can you start?
  • Donate To AkshayaPatra And Bring A Smile On The Child's Face - By: Ajay K
    When looking for a charitable organization to give an online donation you need not look any further than the AkshayaPatra foundation. Not many people may have heard of this wonderful organization, even though they are the largest charitable organization in the world.
  • Charity begins when you forget about yourself - By: Daniel Collins
    Lots of people agree it is important to be charitable but do not give it enough thought to be in a position to help. However, wonderful rewards await those who seek none at all.
  • Architecture: Shaping the Face of Earth - By: Dev Saras
    Architecture is defined as the activity of designing and constructing buildings. It reflects the society and affects the way that society develops. Designing any kind of system is known as architecture. From the time immemorial the profession of architecture plays a key role in the developments of building, town planning, urban design and landscape architecture. It is actually the designing of total built environment.
  • See How Simply You Can Discover People By SSN - By: Benny Horowitz
    The easiest and most effective way to discover anyone is by using their Social Security Number (SSN) - People search by SSN
  • Who Can Help Me To Locate People - By: Benny Horowitz
    There are many resources out there if you're looking how to locate people and you are willing to pay a little money to do so. You can try the "free" sources if you would like, but they aren't always reliable and often are just a trap to convince you that they do have the info you need, but require that you pay them to get it.
  • The Meaning of Orange Roses: Passionate Love - By: Timothy Spencer
    Orange is a vibrant rose color which also talks of passionate love and desire other than red. Orange rose is an uncommon alternative to the usual red rose. This article shows off the characteristics and uniqueness of orange roses.
  • The Traditions of Gift Giving in the Philippines - By: Timothy Spencer
    Asian cultures such as the Philippines have a deep traditions regarding gift giving. This article discusses these different traditions and gives an overview of the kinds of gifts Filipinos appreciate.
  • The Message Conveyed By Your Car's Color - By: Scott Conklin
    A look at what the color of your car says about your personality