Divorce: Can It Be Avoided?

By: Nick Arrizza, M.D.
Submitted: 2007-01-17 16:23:55
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If two individuals are intent on trying one last time to make their relationship work then there is a way.

A relationship is just like a person. It stores within it the sum total of all the memories that make it up. After all when individuals talk about their relationship what do they talk about if it’s not what happened to them i.e. their history.

It is the same history that each partner uses against the other and against the relationship to justify why it is worth leaving.

Without such information one would be hard pressed to make a case for or against a relationship. This would present a clean slate from which to create something totally fresh, would it not?

Now I know that you’re probably thinking that this sounds a bit dubious at best. I would like to let you know that I have worked with individuals this way for over ten years with very promising results so please try to keep an open mind as you read on.

Now just a word of caution here first. Individuals who enter into a relationship always bring with them the history of their lives that preceded that relationship. This history includes other relationship experiences which are either helpful or not.

In order for a failing relationship to start afresh it also becomes necessary to address destructive relational patterns that already pre-existed in each individual.

Even if a divorce takes place it becomes imperative that the corresponding individuals address this history adequately so that they don't carry it into the next relationship.

When this happens history tends to repeat itself and in the process consumes an individual's life leaving them sad, untrusting and cynical.

So in order to redeem a current failing relationship three things are necessary:

1. Two individuals in integrity who are committed to trying again.

2. The effective release of the negative memories of the current relationship from the minds/bodies of each individual.

3. The effective release of any negative relational patterns that each individual brought into the relationship at its inception.

Part 1 must come from the individuals. Here love is the key to integrity and commitment. If its there great. If not it becomes exceedingly more difficult to make this work.

Parts 2 and 3 can be addressed quickly and easily with a new process called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) (MRP).

MRP helps individuals clear all traumatic memories that the couple hold within them.

It is just such memories that fuel negative feelings against the other and against the continuation of the relationship itself.

Such memories can be released in a way that helps restore the genuine love that the individuals had for each other initially.

What's more it can facilitate the necessary emotional growth that such individuals needed before they even entered this relationship.

So what is being said here is that not only are they able to start afresh, they become more capable and mature individuals.

This makes the fresh experience more rewarding and the new relationship more resilient.

If you and your partner are going through a tough time and you feel inspired to experience what MRP can do for you kindly visit the web link below and consider arranging an introductory consultation

Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is an Energy Psychiatrist, Healer, Key Note Speaker,Editor of a New Ezine Called "Spirituality And Science" (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of "Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation" (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Energy Medicine Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.

Business URL #1: http://www.telecoaching4u.com

Personal URL: http://www.telecoaching4u.com/Spirituality_And_Science.htm

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