Divorce: The History Of It Needn't Stay With You For Life

By: Nick Arrizza, M.D.
Submitted: 2007-01-17 16:23:55
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So you've just finalized your divorce and you’re looking forward to a life without your Ex.

You are however still carrying the scars that goes with a history of at best a sad relationship and at worst a traumatic one.

Most people believe that they just have to live with this history and move on. Yes, there are some that find themselves entering into therapy to try and understand what happened so that they will not repeat the past.

There are many who also "think" that it's important to have this unfortunate history of events stored in memory believing that it will somehow help them avoid the same pitfalls in the future.

As a trained psychiatrist and psychotherapist for over 25 years it is my view that neither therapy nor holding onto this history will serve you any useful purpose.

I am so convinced of this that I left the paradigm of psychiatry and psychotherapy altogether 4 years ago. I just wasn't working and I was looking for a more effective approach to really help individuals in their lives.

I developed a new modality called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) (MRP) that effectively helps one completely release negative emotions, beliefs and memories, from the mind and body where they are stored.

You see when a trauma is stored in the mind or body it becomes unconsciously held and this has the effect of not only limiting you emotionally it also acts to parasitically steal your vital life energy.

Another way of saying this is that it is killing you! In other words all the negative experiences that you've had in your life act to drain you of your vital life energy. This compromises you both emotionally and physically over time.

To see this for yourself just recall a negative memory even one that you’ve worked on in therapy and notice how you feel as you think about it. Probably not very good.

What's more, if you read my article entitled "Family: The Psychic Effects Of Your Anger On Others" you will learn why it's important to address such left over emotions.

So you see, even if you never see or think about your Ex ever again the "imprint" of the traumatic life history you had together goes on affecting you in a way that you never even considered. Of course that's the most optimal scenario isn't it?

In most cases the trauma remains fresh for years to come. The effects of course being that much more destructive.

MRP has been shown to help individuals quickly reclaim the vital life energy, self confidence, self esteem, and self worth, and peace of mind that comes with a rapid and effective release of all of that traumatic history.

If you'd like to know more about MRP or to arrange an introductory consultation kindly visit the web link below.

Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is an Energy Psychiatrist, Healer, Key Note Speaker,Editor of a New Ezine Called "Spirituality And Science" (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of "Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation" (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Energy Medicine Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.

Business URL #1: http://www.telecoaching4u.com

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