Why Breakups Are So Frequent With Teens

The problems emerge long before marriages. Couples who start their dating with their head in the clouds and are preoccupied with the fantasies of a blissful life, most often end their bad relationships red-eyed and dismayed.

Ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends, was part of the romance fiction; after a break up they find themselves fallen in the flames of anger whys of which they do not know. Among high school students, the breaking up an old deep relationship has become a practice, and it is so common that some keep themselves away from dating only to avoid the bad relationships and the suffering that is sure to follow.

In the last decade, the situation has worsened even more. There prevails a sense of hopelessness among teens and young adults in case of a bad relationship. There is more than one reason for why good relationships break up. Across the board cultural and structural revolutionaries which have taken place in society in the last few decades have played a major role in breaking up.

In 1910, eighty percent of US citizens lived in countryside areas. In the present day, eighty percent live in inner-city areas. 1 out of every 5 Americans shifts to urban areas annually. Urban life and relocation anxiety are the only 2 factors that have put extra pressure on couples. The fast urban life compels people to try to make relationships more quickly. On the other hand, relationships develop strong and profound only when grow little by little and steadily. Consequently, hurriedness in relationship is likely to make bad relationships, which easily break up.

In the times gone by, lots of marriages used to be practical in nature. In our day, they are for the most part social. To be precise, in 1910 husband needed wife to help him in the farm, and rear his children as well. In the present day, conversely, questions like, do I look good with him? Or does she suits with my temperament? Are we sexually attractive for each other? Do we have the similar habits and tastes?Will my parents approve, are overwhelming the minds of young couples. All this baffles their minds and many times results in the relationship ending essentially before it starts.

A 3rd factor is the increasing number of the commerce-centered matrimonial relationships vs. the home-centered relationships. In the ancient times, couples first and foremost married to seek a perfect home environment. Today's teens and society has greatly changed. Teens today face many pressures that were not around 30 years ago. Peer pressure for teens today to fit it is bigger then life itself. Suicide rate is highest among teenagers. The feeling of loneliness and insecurity or feeling left out or the end of a bad relationship are typical results for teen suicide.

In the end as parents all we can do is give our teens our support and watch carefully for the warning signs of a bad teen relationship. Parents must take a hands on approached with their kids to make sure they are on the right path and always make time to listen to your teens.