Attracting a Friend - Getting Out of the Friend Zone!

By: Nate Eastman
Submitted: 2007-01-17 16:39:40
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Ending up in the friend zone plain sucks. Seriously! If you don't know what the friend zone is, then you are about to find out. The friend zone is a hypothetic group that girls place you in. That is right, girls sort you out without you even knowing about it. What are the benefits of the friend zone? Unless you enjoy comforting a girl while she cries to you about her recent guy problems, getting absolutely no sexual play from her, and being her "emotional tampon"… none. Nothing good comes from it, and this zone is not a fun one to be in.

Entire books could be written on this subject, but right here right now you are getting your little crash course. So lets start with signs you are in the friend zone.

-You listen to her complain about other guys

-You don't do anything sexual/physical with her

-She calls you a "friend"

-You seem to always be calling her, not the other way around

-You call more than twice a week just to talk

-You find her panties in your best friend's room

You get the idea. When she is treating you like one of the girls, or even worse, as her special friend that she cries to all of the time, you ARE in the friend zone, whether you like it or not. Never fear though, Kemo is here to get you out.

The first step is to quit being such a a supplicating guy. You've read the site (overnightplayer.com), you've read the articles, start applying the stuff. I don't care how long you have known a girl, you can always start and show her you have changed. Don't even tell her about a change, actions speak louder than words.

Next, make it known that there are other females in your life. Sure, jealousy is far from attraction, but it can trigger it when done right. Don't flat out say that you are banging lots of chicks, just drop a name here and there, make sure she knows that you get out and flirt with other girls, which leads too my next point…

GET OUT AND FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS! The one you like probably isn't even that perfect anyway. Find a bunch of other girls and you will soon see that she isn't as amazing as you thought. The hottest girl in one room, is the ugliest in the next, so explore a bit. Make a big list of all of the flaws with the girl you like and realize that she probably isn't worth your time anyway.

Stop giving her attention. No more calling on your part. If she doesn't call you, then forget her, move on and a month later call her up and be a complete player. That is when you catch her. DON'T GIVE IN TO TEMPTATION. Everyone thinks their situation is different, and it is ok to call. They start getting paranoid about what the girl is doing and if she is talking to other guys, so after a day or two they give in and see what's going on with the girl. Please don't be that guy. That guy that keeps on supplicating to her needs and giving her attention even though he knows it isn't going to get him anything.

Finally the last thing is don't go back to your old ways. Keep up all of your new attitudes until you actually do something with the girl, and even then don't go back to being a wuss. She will try to break you down, and try to make you revert back to your more nice guy personality, but in the end, if you don't go back, you will be passing one of her biggest tests to see how much of a man you are. BE THE MAN.

So in conclusion, the friend zone is a scary place, and the road out of it is bumpy with a load of obstacles. But every single long term girlfriend I've had in my life I got to by first escaping the friend zone so you can do it too. Just follow what I say exactly, and don't think that your situation is different than any other one. BE A PLAYER, not a wuss.

I'm Kemo, an admin at http://www.overnightplayer.com - The home of seduction an attraction! The website is owned and operated by experts in the field of attracting and seducing women. If you liked the article, check out our site for more.

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