Give Yourself and to Your Life - "Just One More Chance"

By: Sanjeev Himachali
Submitted: 2007-01-17 16:40:21
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“Every moment is a new moment; every day is a new day. Every show is a new show; and every match is a new game.”

I have seen people getting frustrated with repeated failures. These failures can be in any field. Some are frustrated because:

1. They are not able to get any job.

2. They are not able to get the job that they like.

3. In Spite of their repeated attempts they are not able to get desired results.

4. In Spite of their hard-work and struggle they failed to clear the “Competitive Exam”.

5. As a father, mother, brother, sister, son, daughter, lover, spouse…they are giving their best in every relation but are not getting the love, respect, care and affection that they are looking for.

6. As a salesman, though they are getting lot many leads but they are not able to convert those leads into business.

There are many such moments and incidents in our life. Each one us have been through one such incident in their life.

At times the pressure is high…tolerance is zero. Tunnel is long, with no sign of light. Frustration is high and pain is deep and in such situations…most of us just give-up and at times people also commit suicide. It is in these situations that one must ask them:

1. “Did they try their best?”

2. “Were they sincere in their attempts?”

3. “Was the hard-work, put-in by them was just-enough to get the desired result?”

It is easy to give-up. It is easy to end your life. It is easy to blame others. What is difficult is:

1. To continue

2. To give yourself – One more chance

3. To try again…with more zeal and vigor

4. Not to give-up…not to surrender…but try again.

I agree that at times…life is too harsh on us; at times people don’t accept us the way we want them to accept us. One cannot change the “Declared result or Outcome” but one surely can change their own perception or attitude…the way they see the outcome.

So, dear friends, don’t just give-up. Give yourself and to your life – “One more Chance”. Every sunset is an end of the day; every success/failure…is your last. Tonight, sleep peacefully. Tomorrow will be another day and you will get the better results…best deal. Everything is with you. Everything is in your mind…in your hand. Doesn’t matter, how was your yesterday or how your tomorrow will be but today is YOURS…this moment is YOURS. Hold it properly and give your best. Life is short. There is no time to sit idle. No time to regret. No time to heal your pain. Get ready for your next shot.

With lots of love and care

Sanjeev Himachali

(Chandigarh – India)

(Mobile: +91-9876328841)

(Blog: http://sanjeevhimachali.blogspot.com/)

(E-mail: ss_himachali@yahoo.com; sanjeev.himachali@gmail.com)

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