• Unethical Negotiating Gambits and How to Protect Yourself Against Them

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    Let me teach you the unethical gambits that people can use to get you to sweeten the deal. Unless you're so familiar with them that you spot them right away, you'll find that you will make unnecessary concessions just to get the other side to agree with your proposal. Many a salesperson has had to endure an embarrassing interview with a sales manager who can't understand why he made a concession.Read more…
  • How to Stop People from Grinding on You in Negotiations

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    Let me tell you how to conclude negotiations very effectively. You don't have to use it when the other person is negotiating in good faith with you. You use it only when you feel that the other side is simply grinding away to get the last penny off your price.Read more…
  • 5 Tips for Getting Paid What You're Worth

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    According to a recent study conducted by the Institute for Women's Policy Research, if current wage patterns continue, a 25-year-old woman, working full time, will earn $523,000 less than the average 25-year-old man by the time they both retire at 65.Want to get paid what you're worth? Then consider these tips:1. Banish the romance myth about money.Read more…
  • Setting the Climate for a Non-Confrontational Negotiation

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    What you say in the first few moments of a negotiation often sets the climate of the negotiation. The other person quickly gets a feel for whether you are working for a win-win solution, or whether you're a tough negotiator who's out for everything they can get.That's one problem that I have with the way that attorneys negotiate-they're very confrontational negotiators.Read more…
  • What to Watch for When the Talking is Over and It's Time to Get the Deal in Writing

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    Most people think of negotiating as the verbal give and take that takes people from their different wants and needs to a point of agreement. That, of course, is the heart of negotiating but just as important is the transition to the written contract that formalizes the verbal agreement. Here are the things that Power Negotiators look for as they move toward the written contract:Don't Let the Other Side Write the ContractIn a typical negotiation, you verbally negotiate the details, then put it into writing later for both parties to review and approve.Read more…
  • When You're Negotiating, Money isn't as Important as You Think

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    Let me tell you about my pet subject: When you're selling your product or service, money is way down the list of things that are important to the other side.First, we'll talk about something that you may find hard to believe but it's something of which I've become convinced-that people want to spend more, not less, and that the price concerns salespeople more than the people to whom they sell.Then I'll teach you all the things that are more important to people than money.Read more…
  • Basic Principles Make You A Smarter Negotiator

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    The way that you conduct yourself in a negotiation can dramatically the outcome. I've been teaching negotiating to business leaders throughout North America since 1982 and I've distilled this down to five essential principles. These principles are always at work for you and will help you smoothly get what you want:Get the Other Side to Commit FirstPower Negotiators know that you're usually better off if you can get the other side to commit to a position first.Read more…
  • Ask For More Than You Expect to Get

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    One of the cardinal rules of Power Negotiating is that you should ask the other side for more than you expect to get. Henry Kissinger went so far as to say, "Effectiveness at the conference table depends upon overstating one's demands." Think of some reasons why you should do this: Why should you ask the store for a bigger discount than you think you have a chance of getting?Read more…
  • To be a Better Bargainer, Bracket Your Objective

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    Whether you're bargaining in your favorite antique store, negotiating for an increase in pay, or trying to get the rock-bottom price for a new car, you'll do better if you use a technique that negotiators call Bracketing. This means that your initial proposal should be an equal distance on the other side of your objective as their proposal.Let me give you some simple examples:The antique dealer is asking $1200 for that antique desk that would be perfect in the corner of your living room.Read more…
  • The Value of a Service Goes Down Quickly

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    The value of a service always appears to go down quickly as soon as those services have been performed. The value of any material object you buy may go up in value over the years, but the value of services always appears to decline rapidly after you have performed those services.Power Negotiators know that any time you make a concession to the other side in a negotiation you should ask for a reciprocal concession right away.Read more…
  • Want to Get More at the Bargaining Table? Learn to Flinch at Proposals

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    Power Negotiators know that you should always flinch-react with shock and surprise at the other side's proposals.Let's say that you are in a resort area and stop to watch one of those charcoal sketch artists. He doesn't have the price posted, and he has the shill sitting on the stool.Read more…
  • If You Need to Put Negotiating Pressure on the Other Side, Try Good Guy / Bad Guy

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    Good Guy/Bad Guy is one of the best known negotiating gambits. Charles Dickens first wrote about it in his book Great Expectations. In the opening scene of the story, the young hero Pip is in the graveyard when out of the sinister mist comes a large, very frightening man.Read more…
  • How to Negotiate When the Other Person Tells You that They Don't Have the Authority to Decide

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    One of the most frustrating situations you can run into is trying to negotiate with the person who claims that he or she doesn't have the authority to make a final decision. Unless you realize that this is simply a negotiating tactic that's being used on you, you have the feeling that you'll never get to talk to the real decision-maker.When I was president of the real estate company in California, I used to have salespeople coming in to sell me things all the time: advertising, photocopy machines, computer equipment, and so on.Read more…
  • Power Negotiators Understand the Importance of Gathering Information

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    Henry Kissinger was once asked if he already knew what the Soviets would propose at an upcoming summit meeting. He said, "Oh, absolutely-no question about it. It would be absolutely disastrous for us to go into a negotiation not knowing in advance what the other side was going to propose.Read more…
  • To Be a More Powerful Negotiator Never Say Yes to the First Offer

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    Power Negotiators know that you should never say Yes to the first offer (or counter-offer) because it automatically triggers two thoughts in the other person's mind.Let's say that you're thinking of buying a second car. The people down the street have one for sale, and they're asking $10,000.Read more…
  • If You Don't Feel You're Getting Enough Out of a Negotiation, Nibble for More at the End

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    Power Negotiators know that by using the Nibbling Gambit, you can get a little bit more even after you have agreed on everything. You can also get the other person to do things that she had refused to do earlier. Car salespeople understand this, don't they?Read more…
  • 5 Steps To Getting A Better Contract, A Better Offer, Or Even A Better Deal!

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    You have something someone else wants. Usually it’s money. Sometimes, it’s the work you perform.Read more…
  • Negotiating Skills

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    Introduction:Negotiation involves two or more parties, who each have something the other wants, reaching an agreement through a process of bargaining. This section explains the principle of this exchange and gives you the confidence and skills to conduct negotiations and achieve a mutually acceptable outcome. Designed for easy access to relevant information, and including practical tips, this section covers the whole process of negotiation, form preparation of closing a deal, and is suitable for novice and seasoned negotiators alike.Read more…
  • Business Debt Resolution Creates Solution

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    Going to court because a vendor or supplier did not make good on their promise can create immense cash flow problems for a business. In addition, it could result in lawsuits, liens and even bankruptcy. However by choosing debt resolution, business owners can bypass the court system, saving their company a mountain of difficulties.Read more…
  • Creating the Right Atmosphere for Negotiating Differences

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    Conflict resolution is one of the most important skills needed in the 21st Century. Think how often you need to negotiate with people, even on the weekends. For example, on Saturday I started out negotiating with my husband whether or not to go for a run or a walk.Read more…

Most Recent Articles in Negotiation category

  • The 2nd Secret That Negotiators Won't Tell You - Why They Object to Your Proposal - By: TK Chan
    Have you ever wondered why some people object to your proposal during the negotiating process and you are totally lost as to the reason why they do that? What if there is a truth in why most people behave that way and once the truth is unraveled, you would become much more effective in dealing with your negotiating parties in all situations?
  • Tips To Successful Business Negotiation - By: Nazeer Daud
    Successful business negotiation can be worth a great deal to your business. It can mean the difference between securing a contract and losing a contract, and has the potential to be worth untold amounts of money to your business.
  • The Mystic Art of Negotiation - By: Oscar Basurto
    IntroductionWhat is the reason, that we include a topic that may seem, completely materialistic? Because, life is also very materialistic but its foundations and principles are primarily, ethic and just. The negotiator, is not a merchant of the temple, because the things of the spirit, transcend any material value and cannot be bought.
  • If I Knew Being Brave Was So Scary I Never Would Have Tried It - By: Suzanne Freiberg
    I’m feeling really scared right now, not because I’m in a scary situation, but because I was brave and it was scary.In reality it was a little incident that brought me to this scary place; I had to assert my rights in a business dispute and request that someone else fulfill their obligations. Sounds reasonable enough.
  • Business Negotiation Tips For Small Business - By: Alexander Gordon
    Negotiations are things we do almost every day of our lives. However, many of these negotiations do not make much difference to us in the big picture, so we tend to take them lightly. However, when you are negotiating for the business as a small business owner, then it will be very useful if you follow the business negotiation tips for small businesses.
  • Persuasion Tactics in a Person-to-Person Setting - By: Michael Lee
    Persuasion is easier to apply during a conversation between two people, as opposed to communicating in front of a group. This is because in a person-to-person setting, the opportunity to better understand the point of view of the other party exists. You can nitpick and delve into every single detail, as opposed to speaking to an audience, where the interaction is usually one sided.
  • How to Read the Body Language of Buyers And Sellers - By: Michael Lee
    Nonverbal communication, otherwise known as body language, is just as important as the words that are being spoken in a conversation, particularly during a sales meeting or presentation. Professional buyers and sellers know this. They can tell when something is amiss or not right by studying the approach of the vendor or the client as he walks into a room and takes a seat.
  • Negotiation Occurs All the Time - By: Pj Germain
    By now you've been more aware of the times when you are in a negotiation with someone, whether it be a customer, co-worker, vendor, or someone at home. You've no doubt had one or two outcomes that were very different than what was available to you before the win/win training. You also probably had many negotiations that didn't result in win/wins, that went as they have in the past, or perhaps worse than usual as you tried new things.
  • 10 Points to Resist Rip Offs - By: Kurt Mortensen
    What might work wonderfully in one negotiation situation will not always be appropriate in another. The instant someone feels cheated, misled or taken advantage of, your opportunity to negotiate with her/him is over. Negotiation hazards tend to occur when you are taking a particular strategy too far.
  • What's the Difference Between a Negotiation, Arbitration, and Mediation? - By: Tristan Loo
    Negotiation. Involves two or more parties who are engaged in direct discussions with each other in a concerted effort of reaching an agreement. Both parties use persuasion and influence to get the other party to see things their way.